Do not take a single breath separate .. Do not live and make me color in your own color… Hearing these few lines of film songs, it comes to mind that how can two people colors in the same color, how Can two people be the same? The person who composed this line may have written this song keeping in mind such a couple who are lost in each other’s love in such a way that they want to look the same. These things may seem filmy, but often we have seen such husband and wife around us whose face matches each other. Seeing them, they get out of the mouth spontaneously that these couples look like siblings, but do you know that it is not just a fantasy but also the secret of psychology is hidden behind it ..
Do couples become alike while living together?
In a respected NCBI, using the data of the Health and Research Survey (HRS), was studied on such couples, whose age difference is ten years, a survey was conducted on about 12,652 people. The study started with a couple who married 1992 or before and after many years, this survey was conducted on this couple in the year 1996, and then in the year 2000. This study found that if one spouse improves its behavior, then the chances of making equal changes in the other increase. Psychologists believe that in this way a couple gradually starts to become the same. This study was conducted by focusing on Health Bihaviers, Preventive Services Act.
Dr. Satyakanth Trivedi, a student, says that many types of hypothesis have been given in the field of psychology about it. There is a matter of facial mimicry hypothesis, which is said that the husband and wife are repeatedly copied by looking at the gesture of each other’s face, which makes their ways to express their expressions equal.
Emotional Contagion: When people stay together for a long time, they start adopting each other’s feelings, which leads to some similarity in their facial expressions. Those who seem to see many people from outside, just as the brothers and sisters grew together.
Spousal resumblance theory: Some research also suggests that most people choose the same life partner for themselves, whose physical features are already similar to them, which increases the equality over time.
Does Happy couples only look like
A study done in 1987 (Robert Zajonc etc.) found that the couples living together for 25 years become very similar, especially when they are living a happy marital life. Dr. Trivedi says that according to me, I can also be called Couple Facial Synchronization or Marriage Morphing Effect. Dr. Anil Shekhawat, a psychiatrist of Jaipur, explains it in an easy language, saying that when we are living with someone, we do not even know, but some habits that we like make a place in our memory. . Many times we copy those habits, or simply say that we start doing the same in the same way. The style of walking from facial expressions also starts to reflect in another person by spending a long time together.