Many such reel are going viral on Instagram in which boys are saying that what is the benefit of our reading and success? While sharing the photo of Sahil Shukla, a lover of the smile of Meerut, and Raj Kushwaha, the lover of Sainam of Indore, they are raising the same question as to why girls like Chhapari type boys. For the past few years, the trend of the word Chhapari in social media has increased considerably. Come, let us mean the meaning of Chhapari and the mentality of girls who take the lives of husbands for such boys from psychologists.
Who are the seals
Chhapari is actually a slang which became very famous in social media. This was said to people of a person of such personality who like superficial and dekhawa, no depth is seen in their rituals. It is a kind of young age and attitude which is used in great fun and negative style.
What was the girls liked in Sahil and Raj?
In both cases of Meerut and Indore murder, lover Sahil Shukla and Raj Kushwaha do not live up to the ‘ideal’ parameters of the society. Where Sahil was addicted to drug addiction, his room was filled with liquor bottles and neighbors described him as ‘Charasi’. At the same time, Raj Kushwaha, a 21 -year -old boy who was a very minor employee in Sonam’s father’s factory. Nevertheless, smile and Sonam went to kill their husbands for them. The psychological reasons behind this sees the experts like this.
Emotional engagement and cool style
Psychologist Dr. Vidhi M. Pilania says that it is such that we feel that they are feeling the same, but for the women who like, they are a means of their emotional satisfaction in a way. Such boys make them emotionally satisfied. These boys keep them on their heads and eyes. They keep their self -estimates high and sometimes they show a side of their own and their behavior which is very human.
For example, Sahil Shukla, a lover of Muskan in Meerut, created such an image that he is a very religious person. He has power, he loves his mother very much. One of this method that he made, he gets attracted to girls many times. Small-to-small human feelings attract girls relatively very good and earns more. Many girls want emotional security, so boys of this way know how to handle them very well.
Personality involvement
Dr. Piloniya says about Muskan’s lover Raj Kushwaha that I was looking in the news that Raj’s mother says that my son is so kind that if there is no slippers in someone’s leg, gives his slippers and comes barefoot. In this way, the behavior that reflects these boys reflects girls, some girls get more attracted to this. He repeatedly shows how you got so good and how I got it, it is my destiny. This feeling always makes the girl feel superiority at the above status. Staying with such people, it feels that this emotionally is respecting me a lot, protecting my emotions a lot. If it is so good with his mother or gives slippers to the poor by being poor, then in the eyes of the girl she is not a splash.
Wishes for freedom
Dr. Satyakanth Trivedi, a well -known psychiatry of Indore, says that many girls want to live openly but could not live. These girls are attracted to those boys who are impeccable and cool. These boys are seen breaking the rules of society, which gives girls a feeling of ‘freedom’. Whether it was Sahil’s careless attitude or Raj’s assurance of marriage to Sonam, he may find this attractive.
Creminal tendency is also the main reason
Chandra Prakash, a teacher in the Department of Psychology at the University of Dilli, sees it differently. They say that there is a criminal activity in both cases. Many more such cases are coming out. This is out of social pressure. In this, psychopathic tendency is also available of both. Often when two people are in love, one will back down or explain if one planning like a murder, but when the tendency matches, then such people make a respect for each other. It will be seen more than the social choice of girls to psychopathic personality. It is a very important thing to be emotional laces, to give importance to the Creminal Act.
Research came out
In 2010, research from Dundi University found that women are more attracted to men who are always emotionally available, even if their social status is average or what is the look. Psychology also defines like this.
Dominends do dominant with confidence and cleverness
Psychiatrician Dr. Anil Shekhawat sees it connecting it to Personality Tret. He says that you understand how Muskan encouraged Sahil to kill Saurabh and justified the murder by sending a message from a fake Snapchat account. On the other hand, Sonam sent a message to Raj to come close to the husband and took Raj with him in plotting to murder. In this, the personality of girls also looks mysterious and bent towards negativity.
There is also a reason
Both Muskan and Sahil were addicted to the Meerut case. According to research from the University of California in 2015, people with drug addiction often form co-dependent relationships that separates them from the outside world. Sahil and Muskan’s intoxication became the cause of unhealthy bond between them. In the Indore case, although there is no clear mention of intoxication, Raj and Sonam’s constant conversation and depth of conspiracy shows a strong bond between them.
Social pressure and rebellion is also the reason
The mention of Muskan’s step mother and family pressures came to light in the police investigation. At the same time, in the case of Indore, it is being said that Sonam had told her mother a matter of love to Raj Kushwaha, but the family forced her to marry within the community. Dr. Anil says that many girls revolt by being fed up with the pressure of family and society. In such a situation, boys called ‘Chhapari’ who do not care about the rules of society become the center of attraction for them.